My most favorite thing that happens during trade talks is when people actually respond. Even if it's to tell me I'm full of shit, at least we have a place to start. It's obviously much easier to trade with folks who seem to have a similar eye for the talent as you do as well, since value will be close. And if you know we don't often see things exactly the same way, don't soft shoe in, just put your best foot forward and let's see what we can cook up. A pet peeve of mine in trading (made worse that know I'm occasionally guilty of this too): Only fishing. Meaning, you only want the other team to make the first offer. I don't mind a quick message to gauge general interest levels to deal at all, but once interest is established, please don't only wait for the other person to send an offer. And really, the time this is actually annoying is when you've asked about one of my players. Don't try to flip the responsibilities of choosing value on me when YOU want my guy. Drop your offer and let's chat.
In general though, I've had very few trade discussions that I have simply hated. In fact, I enjoy the engagement and conversation. Sometimes it leads to interesting conversation about the league as a whole, learning more about particular GMs, and just keeps things fun. I welcome all the conversation you want to have.
Dealings with Nate, Charlie, and Jon have been the smoothest for me. Not usually a ton of hemming/hawing and we can tell if there's middleground pretty quickly. Nick and I don't always see values the same, but those are interesting trade discussions. Doug and I don't always trade, but we've been part of our fair share of blockbusters over the seasons. Doug is easy to reach when he's interested, but, he will go strangely quiet when you send him something he's not feeling as much 🫣
Two guys I haven't made a lot of dealings with who I really do hope we get more opportunities to do so are Carlos and Josh. I respect the hell out of both guys, and I definitely trust that our ideas on value of players is pretty spot-on. However, I think why we rarely get opportunities to do big splash trades is that all of us are competing at the same time so often that we're more competing for players and wins, not in a place where we can swap a ton.
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